Bad boys "keep it real." Nice guys don't want to upset the apple cart.2. A bad boy doesn't let a woman walk all over him or control him. We sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won't be able to take control and get the job done. Meanwhile, when a woman describes someone as a nice guy, she means, "He's not hot."11. Giphy Nice guys don't always know what to say and are sometimes at a loss for words.
Community Q&A Somewhere along the line, we humans have learned to complicate the dating process so much that now no one can find that special someone.
Animals in the wild meet up, pair up, mate up, and raise offspring.
A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver, even though that may not always be the case. Bad boys can be very charming and know exactly what women want to hear.
However, they eventually switch over to being selfish.
While some women say they want a nice guy, they usually end up dating bad boys. No one can always be that nice unless they're a saint. Gif Sec Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they're attracted to people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. If you don't think much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing your negative belief.
In my opinion, the ideal man is neither, but walks that fine line between the two. Predictable plus no excitement plus no challenge equals I prefer a bad boy.4. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment, and that's scary.8. Giphy We don't feel comfortable with people who treat us better than we treat ourselves.
People act coy, throw out lines, hide things, tell lies, skulk around, and try at every single moment to stay totally in control of what's going on in any relationship.
Whether we admit it or not, whether we realize it or not, what we all really want is control.
By the time they reveal their true colors, the woman has fallen hard and has a tough time letting go.12. Giphy Historically, men have protected women — physically and otherwise.