The dad hates me, but he's kinda..imo, the mom doesnt hate me persay, just thinks i'm a cocky asshole because she tried to tell me i could be arrested, and that the age of consent was 18, when its 17, i showed her and she said i'm a cocky asshole -_-. She needs to be away from a father that's hitting 17 year olds.Her dad said we're *broken up* and she said no, well he said you are under 18, you have to believe what i force you to believe(although you can not ever force someones mindset like that, all it takes to be *Dating, or bf and gf, is to have that mindset to both the male and female, we blocked them from FB in which they asked us to unblock them because they want to see if it says in a relationship, but we said we wouldnt unblock them, and they force her to church when she doesn't believe, which is weird to force someone like that. There's absolutely no moral problem at all with a 2 year old doing anything at all with a 17 year old and I can't see anyone thinking otherwise.There are legal considerations of course--for example, in some states it is actually statutory rape for even an 18-year-old to have sex with a 17-year-old.
But her parents wont let me see her, they made her quit cheerleading because she dates me, and they tell everyone in the town im a pedo and like 14year olds?
Now she's a senior in highschool, and i'm a college freshmen, i just started, maturity wise she's probably even more mature then me.
But i've tried everything, her dad hit her before so i called CPS and now the dad hates me, he told her if he finds out were together again he'll beat us to a bloody pulp.
So we don't see each other anymore, we webcam when she can get on her older brother's pc(he's 21 and my best friend) and text and call every night, every once in awhile maybe month or two i'll see her somehow for 20-30minutes for a kiss, but that's it, previously we spent 8months together every day, but she didn't tell her parents about it.
IMO, there are some ages where say, a four year spread is huge, versus other times in life when four years makes little difference. When you talk to teen girls, many times you'll hear about the "immaturity" of guys their age.
This may be true--boys tend to mature slower than girls--but does that make it okay for teenage girls to see older guys?She's not allowed to leave the house or anything, she goes to school then home, thats it, they wanted her to get a job and she got offered one at my workplace, and her parents wouldn't let her even though i work nights, just because i worked there! I'm not some dropout, completed highschool, i don't drink or do drugs, and i'm in college holding all b's I'm guessing it's not legal for her to move out at 17 in NY, (she wants to live with grandma, who loves me and i help her grandma every day) But, IMHO, is 17 and 20 that bad? For more extended advice, convince me this is genuine. She needs to be away from a father that's hitting 17 year olds.I used to go to her highschool and everyone there is slutlike, 14year olds having sex, girls dating a different guy every week, stuff like that. There's absolutely no moral problem at all with a 2 year old doing anything at all with a 17 year old and I can't see anyone thinking otherwise.To me, i would think someone who is maintaining there life, and in college is a godsend, but apparently i'm a pedofile -__- First of, "IMHO" doesn't make any sense here. For more extended advice, convince me this is genuine.Well, i turned 20 on april 22nd, and my girlfriend turns 18 on july 21st.i usually follow the rule for dating as your age divided by two + 7= lowest to date, in which is 17.